Not so many marriages in the kingdom are successful because of the little foxes that destroys the garden which time will not permit me to start counting here. But looking critically into survey and researches, it is pathetic to note that many christian homes have been broken without amends due to lack of adequate communication and compatibility. Some ranges from hidden secrets to infidelity and many more.
Having said that, I have been receiving so many messages from last week from the latest news delivered by the federal government on the possibility of Ikoyi marriage Registry which in turns will nullify so many marriage certificates received from there. The news to many has created mixed feelings and grief but the big question I asked myself is, does the certificate from the registry and any other marriage centres determines how far and well the marriage will go?
I am one of those who observe my registry at Ikoyi and instead of acting as the victim here and making the whole thing looks like without the certificate there is no marriage, I decide to think deep and look within and these are the questions I came up with
- Is successful marriage dependent on where it is held?
- Does spending lavishly on wedding determines the well being and longevity of the marriage?
- Is there any discrepancies between church wedding and any other form of marriage?
- Which is the right biblically, church mode of solemnization or traditional solemnization?
To be continued.....
